What to do when you lose someone?

i had a similar type of situation with a girl like this once- she wasnt sure if she wanted to date me or not. I got along with her great and often she would text me more than i did her (and i texted her a LOT lol) but eventually she said she wanted to ask me out but was afraid she was getting to intimate with me we ended up slowing down and only being friends. it does hurt and i can say i understand how you feel; but make sure you understand that girls are not attracted to guys who help them solve all their problems. if you are the first person the talk to then you are considered more of a comfort zone to them and if they date you they might get worried that breaking up with you would create too many problems. just find another girl dude lol- there are billions of fish in the sea...