Who thinks the electoral college is fair?

when each person's vote doesn't count the same as someone else's. In Alaska there are 209,000 votes for 1 electoral vote and in TX there are 615,000 votes for 1 electoral vote. Why should someone's vote count for more because they live in a less populated area? Each vote should count as an individual. When people use the argument "because then cali and NY would decide the election" what do they mean? that's where more people live but their votes shouldn't count for less right? we divide this country up into states too easy, we all need to come together as one union, not 50 separate entities. what do you all think?